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Everything you want is out there waiting for you to ask. Everything you want also wants you. But you have to take action to get it. –Jules Renard

It is Valentine’s Day again. If you have found your Honey, then there is no need to read this article. When we have found the love of our life, Valentine’s Day is our way of life everyday.

With that said, if you are one of the over twenty-five million women between the age of thirty-five and forty-five in the United States today looking to be in a long-term relationship with a man with whom to build a solid family life, I say keep reading…you really need this information.

Although the media peddles the fun and excitement of Valentine’s Day, you know this holiday is one that will not let you forget that you have not found the one to share and grow love with. You are faced with the heartbreaking reality that you are still alone. Or even worse, you are in a relationship with a man who does not love, cherish and commit to you the way he should, but, you settle for him anyway to not be alone. Why settle for “Mr. Right Now” when you can live your life fully with “Mr. Right”? Wouldn’t you like to be one of the women who do not need to read this article on Valentine’s Day next year?

You can be! If you want to take on a mission that will guarantee you are never alone again on Valentine’s Day, here it is: First, go to your nearest stationary store and buy a notebook. On Valentine’s Day, get up at least an hour earlier than you usually would and sit quietly with your notebook; say a little prayer for guidance and inspiration, then write about the man you will be spending Valentine’s Day with next year…the wonderful man who will be your husband. Take time to describe him—physically, spiritually, morally and emotionally. Write about the type of relationship you two have with each other. Write about how it feels to build a life with him.

Imagine him, feel him, hear him and see him in your mind. He is already there, waiting for you. Can you feel him in your heart? He can! He needs you as much as you need him! He wants and desires you as much as you want and desire him! He loves you and wishes to be build a life with you as much as you love him and wish to build a life with him! You both know who you are; you just need to find each other…

When you have finished your assignment, put your notebook down and while holding your right hand up, say, “I promise, on my honor, that I will make the necessary efforts and maintain the courage needed for this relationship to take place. So help me God!”

Next, put your plan into action. Go get a new dress or two, shop for sexy shoes (just shopping for shoes will already make you feel better) and put an alluring smile on your face. You are ready to go!

Have a drink at a lovely restaurant or lounge where you can sit at the bar and practice this guaranteed flirting technique—smile while locking eyes with the unsuspecting males around you. Then, wait for them to come up and talk to you. Do not start a conversation with any of them, let them initiate. (If the idea of going out alone scares you, bring a girlfriend with you. Don’t engage in deep conversation with her; she is only acting as your sidekick so you can feel more comfortable going out to meet your future husband.)

Because you need all the help you can get, come to my weekly Dating To Marriage Workshop which I conduct every Saturday at Café Bleu in Hillcrest. This is the best fifteen dollars you will have ever spent (…unless of course it was to get a sexy pair of shoes)! Come, be with others who, like you, want to be in a beautiful relationship with the man they know is looking for them!

Take good care of your self and remember that men are as good as women require them to be.

Fléchelle Morin, dating to marriage consultant and motivational speaker, is the author of the book “Kissing Or No Kissing; Whom Will You Save Your Kisses For? A Dating Guide To Creating Your Dreams.” She conducts weekly Dating to Marriage workshops in San Diego, California. You can send your questions or comments by email at flechelle@nokissing.com, or by mail to Fléchelle Morin, P.O. Box 721, San Marcos, CA 92079. For more on this subject or to learn more about Fléchelle and her dating philosophy, visit her website at www.nokissing.com.

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